Hi Guys,
How are you? Did it rain at your end last night? The rain last night was so needed, the weather has been hot lately. If you an ardent visitor here, you will notice i don't only talk on fashion but on lifestyle too. So today, i will write those things guys wish ladies knew and ladies wish they knew.

 Unrealistic expectation can kill a relationship , yes i am a woman! But let us talk about those phrases that ladies often want to be realistic....

• "If he doesn't have a car, i cant date him”
• “I want you to hire a photographer when you engage me.” lol really?
• “If the ring isn't big, don't bother proposing.”
• “When we fight, always wait for me at the door steps with flowers”
• “Our house better be on the island”
• “I want a tall, dark, handsome man ( Ahhh!!only you)
• “I’m not going to bed alone. When I go you go, no questions asked.”
• “I want to be your everything or nothing at all.
• “You should always pick my calls
• “Promise you’ll never make me cry.”

Real love isn’t what you see on "The Bachelor", "The Notebook", or "Disney movies".
I remember watching the movie Cinderella a million times as a child and i thought that's the way real love is, well i was wrong.

We mostly believe what we see in movies and that sets everyone up for disappointment from the beginning. Every Man will love to give his future wife a nice house, a beautiful ring, or anything, but what if he can’t? What if  he can only afford a small home and simple engagement ring? What if the best he could give isn’t the same that your friend’s husband lavishes on her? Would that change how you look at him? Will that be a deal breaker? If it is, then maybe you need to take a step back and evaluate what you think a relationship really is. If you’re thinking it’s all about you, then you’re missing the point entirely. It is then we are setting ourselves up for a rude awakening.

Some of the time, we are the reason why these men refuse to put a ring on it, because we have high expectations. We want to be like Bella and forget that we ain't Bella.
You have to first of all understand that we can't always have all we want.
We can't all be equal.
Some of us might have more goodies in life than others.
Men are not all that sensitive as Women
Men just want a woman who can be there for them
Men like the simple things of life
Not all men are romantic , but you can gradually help him be one.

I always love using myself as an example. You see, everyone who knows me knows i like guys with BIG BUTT lolol ( coverface).... that is no news. But darling, if i find a man that can make me laugh and probably do those things that put me in my happy mood... am keeping him!! BIG BUTT or no BIG BUTT. 
I have come to realize that i cant have all i want in life, but i can make do of the one i have and make it beautiful.
The best kind of relationship is one that you can be with him, never say a word but still feel like you have had the best conversation ever...
Ladies here is it! Looks? they can deceive, Wealth? even that fades away. look for some one who makes you happy, because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright
I hope you find someone that makes you HAPPY
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